《了不起的我》经典语录

1. 但我们内心与生俱来带有一些防御机制。这种防御机制让我们追求稳定和可控，排斥改变与发展，令我们想要转变的愿望和现实的行动形成强烈的冲突。

2. 人的情感就像一头大象，而理智就像一个骑象人。

3. 改变的本质，其实就是创造新经验，用新经验代替旧经验。

4. 小步子原理：迈出改变的第一步。

5. 培养“环境场”：让新行为变成新习惯。

6. 这些行为线索来自两个方面：行为的历史和他人的反应.

7. 所谓的“场”，就是我们心中关于空间功能的假设。

8. 情感触动：改变最重要的动力。

9. “没有人是一座孤岛， 可以自全。 每个人都是大陆的一片， 整体的一部分。

10. 有人说：“人与人之间的关系，就像一群刺猬，离得远了会觉得寒冷，离得近了又会相互伤害。”

11. 一个独立的人，是在心理上真正断乳的人。

12. 人与人之间需要保持边界。

13.关系让我们迷失，也让我们找回自己。

14. 如果你会听的话，就会发现，人们所说的每句话都是在说关系。

15. 罗曼•罗兰说过：“真正的英勇是认清现实以后还能热爱现实。”

了不起的盖茨比经典语录

【文章导读】 当一个人奋斗了很久，看到梦想如此之近，他是不会轻易放弃的， 以下 了不起的盖茨比经典语录 ，供您欣赏。

【篇一】了不起的盖茨比经典语录1、每当你觉得想要批评什么人的时候，你切要记着，这个世界上的人并非都具备你禀有的条件。

Whenever you feel like criticizing any one, just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had.

2、人们的善恶感一生下来就有差异。

A sense of the fundamental decencies is parceled out unequally at birth.

3、人们的品行有的好像建筑在坚硬的岩石上，有的好像建筑在泥沼里，不过超过一定的限度，我就不在乎它建在什么之上了。

Conduct may be founded on the hard rock or the wet marshes, but after a certain point I don't care what it's founded on.

4、这时，天色已经暗了下来，我们这排高高地俯瞰着城市的灯火通明的窗户，一定让街头偶尔抬头眺望的人感到了，人类的秘密也有其一份在这里吧，我也是这样的一个过路人，举头望着诧异着。我既在事内又在事外，几杯永无枯竭的五彩纷呈的生活所吸引，同时又被其排斥着。

Yet high over the city our line of yellow windows must have contributed their share of human secrecy to the casual watcher in the darkening streets, and I was him too, looking up and wondering. I was within and without, simultaneously enchanted and repelled by the inexhaustible variety of life.

5、他理解体谅地笑了??这笑比理解和体谅有的含义。这是那种不多见的使你忐忑不安的情绪能很快地平静下来的笑，这种笑容人的一生中顶多能碰上四五次。它 先是再一刹那间面对??或者说似乎在面对??整个外部世界，然后他就全副心神地倾注到你的身上，对你充满一种不可抵御的偏爱之情。它对你的理解恰是你想被 人理解的那么多，它对你的信任恰像你平时愿意对自己所信任到的那种程度，它叫你确信它对你的印象恰是你所希望造成的那么多。

He smiled understandingly?much more than understandingly. It was one of those rare smiles with a quality of eternal reassurance in it, which you may come across four or five times in life. It faced?or seemed to face?the whole external world for an instant, and then concentrated on you with an irresistible prejudice in your favor. It understood you just so far as you wanted to be understood, believed in you as you would like to believe in yourself, and assured you that it had precisely the impression of you that, at your best, you hoped to convey.

6、每个人都认为他自己至少具有一种主要的美德，我的美德是：我是我所结识过的少有的几个诚实人中间的一个。

Everyone suspects himself of at least one of the cardinal virtues and this

7、世界上只有被追求者和追求者，忙碌者和疲惫者。

There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy and the tired.

8、他怀着一种创造性的情感将自己全身心地投入到它的中间，不断地为它增添内容，用飘浮到他路上的每一根漂亮羽毛去装扮它。有谁知道在一个人的波诡云谲的心里，能蓄下多少火一样的激情和新鲜的念头。

He had thrown himself into it with a creative passion, adding to it all the time, decking it out with every bright feather that drifted his way. No amount of fire or freshness can challenge what a man will store up in his ghostly heart.

9、他是上帝之子，如果这个词还有什么别的含义的话，这里只能用它的本意，他要为天父的事业而献身，服务于这一博大而又粗俗、浮华而又美丽的事业。

He was a son of God?a phrase which, if it means anything, means just that?and he must be about His Father's business, the service of a vast, vulgar, and meretricious beauty.

10、许多种情感鱼贯似地流露到她的脸上，仿佛正被冲洗着的相纸一点一点地显示出物景那样。

So engrossed was she that she had no consciousness of being observed, and one emotion after another crept into her face like objects into a slowly developing picture.

11、我整夜没睡;雾笛声一个劲儿在桑德海湾上凄恻地鸣响，我辗转反侧，像生了病一样，理不清哪些是狰狞的现实，哪些是可怕的梦魇。

I couldn't sleep all night; a fog-horn was groaning incessantly on the Sound, and I tossed half-sick between grotesque reality and savage, frightening dreams.

12、她消逝在了她那奢华的房子里，消逝在了她那富裕充实的生活之中，留给盖茨比的??只是无有。

She vanished into her rich house, into her rich, full life, leaving Gatsby?nothing.

13、盖茨比比以前任何时候都深切地感受到了财富所能赐予青春的魅力和它所能持有的神秘，感受到了锦衣靓饰的清新怡人，意识到了像银子似的发着熠熠光彩的黛西，安然傲倨于劳苦人为生活所做的拼死斗争之上。

Gatsby was overwhelmingly aware of the youth and mystery that wealth imprisons and preserves, of the freshness of many clothes, and of Daisy, gleaming like silver, safe and proud above the hot struggles of the poor.

14、从这话里，除了能窥测出他对这一无法衡量出的情事之紧张的思考程度，还能推断出什么呢?

What could you make of that, except to suspect some intensity in his conception of the affair that couldn't be measured?

15、如果这一情况真实的话，他那时一定感觉到了他已失去了他原来的那个温馨世界，感觉到了他为这么长时间只活在一个梦里所付出的高昂代价。他那时一定举头望过 令人恐怖的叶片，看到了一个陌生的天宇，他一定不由得颤栗了，当他发现玫瑰原来长得是那么的奇形怪状，照在疏疏落落的草叶上的阳光是那么粗鄙。这是一个没 有真实的物的新世界，在那里可怜的鬼魂们四处随风飘荡，他们像呼吸空气那样吮吸着梦幻。

If that was true he must have felt that he had lost the old warm world, paid a high price for living too long with a single dream. He must have looked up at an unfamiliar sky through frightening leaves and shivered as he found what a grotesque thing a rose is and how raw the sunlight was upon the scarcely created grass. A new world, material without being real, where poor ghosts, breathing dreams like air, drifted fortuitously about.

16、我三十岁了，如果我再年轻五岁的话，我说不定会自己欺骗自己把这称之为美德的。

I'm thirty. I'm five years too old to lie to myself and call it honor.

17、月光渐渐升高，显得渺小的房屋开始融入这溶溶的月色中去，此时我的眼前逐渐浮现出这座古老的岛屿当年在荷兰航海者眼中的那种妖娆风姿??一个新世界的翠绿 欲滴胸膛。它那现在不复存在的林木(为修造盖茨比住过的这座别墅被砍伐掉了)曾经温馨地煽起人类最后的也是最伟大的梦想;在那短暂的神奇时刻里，人类一定 在这片大陆前屏住了呼吸，情不自禁地耽入到他既不理解也没希冀过的美的享受之中，在历史上最后一次面对面地欣赏着，这一与他的感受惊奇的力量相称的景观。

And as the moon rose higher the inessential houses began to melt away until gradually I became aware of the old island here that flowered once for Dutch sailors' eyes?a fresh, green breast of the new world. Its vanished trees, the trees that had made way for Gatsby's house, had once pandered in whispers to the last and greatest of all human dreams; for a transitory enchanted moment man must have held his breath in the presence of this continent, compelled into an aesthetic contemplation he neither understood nor desired, face to face for the last time in history with something commensurate to his capacity for wonder.

18、他经过慢慢追索才来到了这片蓝色的草地上，他的梦想一定已经离得他如此之近以至于他几乎不会抓不到它了。他不知道他的梦想已经被甩在了他的身后，已经隐藏在了城市以外的冥蒙之中，在那里共和国的黑暗的土地在黑夜中延伸着??

He had come a long way to this blue lawn, and his dream must have seemed so close that he could hardly fail to grasp it. He did not know that it was already behind him, somewhere back in that vast obscurity beyond the city, where the dark fields of the republic rolled on under the night.

19、为此，我们将顶住那不停地退回到过去的潮头奋力向前。

So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.

【篇二】了不起的盖茨比经典语录1、 如果打算爱一个人，你要想清楚，是否愿意为了他，放弃如上帝般自由的`心灵，从此心甘情愿有了羁绊。 《了不起的盖茨比》

2、 我年纪还轻，阅历不深的时候，我父亲教导过我一句话，我至今还念念不忘。 ?每逢你想要批评任何人的时候， ?他对我说，?你就记住，这个世界上所有的人，并不是个个都有过你拥有的那些优越条件。? ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

3、 All the bright，precious things fade so fast.And they don?t come back.所有的光鲜靓丽都敌不过时间，并且一去不复返。 ? 《了不起的盖茨比》

4、 我们继续奋力向前，逆水行舟，被不断地向后推，直至回到往昔岁月。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《伟大的盖茨比》

5、 人的本能，总是追逐离开我们的东西，同时却逃避追逐我们的东西。 《大亨小传》

6、 I was within and without. 我既是旁观者清亦是当局者迷。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

7、 可是我一面心里想，我们这排灯火辉煌的窗户高高在这都市之上，从底下暮色苍茫的街道望上来，不知道蕴藏着何等人生的秘密，而我脑海中也见到这么一位过客，偶尔路过此地，抬头望望，不知所以。我自己似乎又在里边又在外边，对这幕人生悲喜剧无穷的演变，又是陶醉又是恶心。 《了不起的盖茨比》

8、 "So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past. 我们奋力前行，小舟逆水而上，不断地被浪潮推回到过去。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》"

9、 我们继续奋力向前，逆水行舟，被不断地向后推，直至回到往昔岁月 。 ??《了不起的盖茨比》 (用这句作为在句子迷的开始) ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

10、 当一个人痛苦的时候才会变得才华横溢，当我的生活步入正轨时，我开始跟你一样，像你忘记我那样忘记你，然后忘掉那些痛苦，开始变得平庸可耻。我不愿这样，也不愿意这样，我无法触及你，你就像盖茨比的梦，璀璨无比，却又触不可及。前方的路上诱惑太多，我没有盖茨比那么了不起，我可能走上其他的路，无法一直追逐你的脚步。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

11、 隐藏自己的判断体现了一种博大的胸襟。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

12、 每个人都以为他自己至少有一种主要的美德，而这就是我的：我所认识的诚实的恶人并不多，而我自己恰好就是其中的一个。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

13、 ?要不是有雾，我们可以看见海湾对面你家的房子，?盖茨比说，?你家码头的尽头总有一盏通宵不灭的绿灯。? 黛西蓦然伸过胳臂去挽着他的胳臂，但他似乎沉浸在方才所说的话里。可能他突然想到那盏灯的巨大意义现在永远消失了。和那把他跟黛西分开的遥远距离相比较，那盏灯曾经似乎离她很近，几乎碰得着她。那就好像一颗星离 月亮那么近一样 。现在它又是码头上的一盏绿灯了。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

14、 世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。 (因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利)。 《了不起的盖茨比》

15、 两个人之间隔着几英尺的暮色 《了不起的盖茨比》

16、 她消逝在了她那奢华的房子里，消逝在了她那富裕充实的生活之中，留给盖茨比的??只是无有。 《了不起的盖茨比》

17、 世界上只有被追求者和追求者，忙碌者和疲惫者。 《了不起的盖茨比》

18、 我走过去告辞的时候，我看到那种惶惑的表情又出现在盖茨比脸上，仿佛他有点怀疑他目前幸福的性质。几乎五年了!那天下午一定有过一些时刻，黛西远不如他的梦想??并不是他本人的过错，而是由于他的幻梦有巨大的活力。他的幻梦超越了她，超越了一切。他以一种创造性的热情投入了这个幻梦，不断地添枝加叶，用飘来的每一根绚 丽的羽毛加以缀饰 。再多的激情或活力都赶不上一个人阴凄凄的心里所能集聚的情思。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

19、 每当你觉得想要批评什么人的时候，你切要记着，这个世界上的人并非都具备你禀有的条件。 《了不起的盖茨比》

20、 假如人的品格是一系列连续不断的成功的姿态，那么这个人身上就有一种瑰丽的异彩，他对于人生的希望具有一种高度的敏感，类似一台能够记录万里以外的地震的错综复杂的仪器。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

21、 他心领神会地一笑??还不止心领神会。这足极为罕见的笑容，其中含有永久的善意的表情，这你一辈子也不过能遇见四二次。它面对??或者似乎面对??整个永恒的世界一刹那，然后就凝注在你身上，对你表现出不可抗拒的偏爱。他了解你恰恰到你本人希望被了解的程度，相信你如同你乐于相信你自己那样，并且教你放心他对你的印象 正是你最得意时希 望给予别人的印象。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

22、 这就是女孩子在这种世界上最好的出路，当一个美丽的小傻瓜。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

23、 如果打算去爱一个人，你要想清楚，是否愿意为了他，放弃心灵的自由，心甘情愿的从此有了羁绊。 《了不起的盖茨比》

24、 所有的光鲜亮丽都敌不过时间，并且一去不复返。 《了不起的盖茨比》

25、 是那些乐队定当年的节奏，用新的曲调总结人生的哀愁和温情。萨科斯通宵鸣咽着《比尔街爵士乐》绝望的哀吟，同时一百双金银舞鞋扬起闪亮的灰尘。 ??菲茨杰拉德 《了不起的盖茨比》

了不起的盖茨比经典语录英文

1、简单的头脑一旦混乱，就会混乱得一发不可收拾。

Once a simple mind is confused, it will be chaotic.

2、女孩子在这种世界上最好的出路，就是当一个美丽的小傻瓜。

The best way for girls to be a beautiful little fool is the best way out in this world.

3、在一帮爱喝酒的人中坚持不喝酒，那可真是好处多多。

It's really good not to drink in a group of people who love to drink.

4、每一个飞蛾扑火般的人，都有一个破茧成蝶的梦。

Every moth who put out fire has a dream of breaking cocoons and butterflies.

5、在灵魂的慢慢黑夜中，每一天都是凌晨三点钟。

In the slow night of the soul, every day is three o'clock in the morning.

6、大都市迷人的黄昏，让我时常感到一种难以排遣的寂寞。

The charming dusk of metropolis makes me feel a lonely and difficult to arrange.

7、在灵魂漫长的黑夜中，永远是凌晨三点钟。

In the long night of soul, it will always be three o'clock in the morning.

8、我们要明白，讲交情要在人活着的时候讲，人死就没有交情了。

We must understand that when people live, they will not be able to make friends when they die.

9、所有的光鲜靓丽都敌不过时间。

All the beauty and beauty can not match time.

10、他们是一群**，他们加在一起也比不上你。

They are a bunch of mixed accounts, and they can't match you together.

11、人们的善恶感一生下来就有差异。

People's feelings of good and evil have been different all their lives.

12、不去评判别人就是对别人怀有无限的希望。

It is infinite hope to others not to judge others.

13、我知道像我这样的人，坠入爱河便犯了大错。

I know that people like me have made a big mistake when they fall in love.

14、于是我们奋力前进，却如同逆水行舟，注定要不停地退回过去。

So we strive to advance, but like a boat, doomed to return to the past.

15、每个人的基本道德观念生而不同，不可等量齐观。

Everyone's basic moral concepts are different, and they can not be equal.

16、为此，我们将顶住那不停地退回到过去的潮头奋力向前。

For this reason, we will stand up the tide that keeps going back to the past and strive to move forward.

17、我好想采一朵那粉红的云彩，把你放在上面推来推去。

I want to pick a pink cloud and push you around.

18、真正的一技之长会让生活成功得多。

A real skill will make life a lot more successful.

19、所有的光鲜靓丽都敌不过时间，并且一去不复返。

All the beauty and beauty can not match time, and will not return.

20、隐藏自己的判断体现了一种博大的胸襟。

Hiding your own judgment reflects a broad mind.

21、我们奋力向前，却如逆水行舟注定了要不断地退回过去。

We are striving forward, but sailing against the water is doomed to return to the past.

22、一个简单的头脑如果陷入混乱，那可非同小可。

A simple mind is not the same if it gets into chaos.

23、世界上只有被追求者和追求者，忙碌者和疲惫者。

There are only those who are pursued and pursued, busy and tired in the world.

24、我既是旁观者清亦是当局者迷。

I am both spectators and fans of the situation.

25、基本的道德观念并非与生俱来、人人皆有的东西。

The basic moral idea is not innate and everyone has.

26、人们并非生来平等，人的善恶感也生来各异。

People are not born equal, and people's good and evil feelings are born different.

27、我们拼命划桨，奋力与波浪抗争，最终却被冲回到我们的往昔。

We rowed hard, fought against the waves, but were finally rushed back to our past.

28、在那个六月的夜晚，他所向往的不仅仅是天上的星星了。

On that June night, he was looking forward to more than just the stars in the sky.

29、所有的光鲜亮丽都敌不过时间，并且一去不复返。

All the light and beauty can not resist time, and will not return.

30、我们逆水行舟，奋力向前，直至被推回到往昔岁月。

We sailed against the water and worked hard to move forward until we were pushed back to the past.

31、批评别人之前，要记得，不是所有人都像你，从小就那么好命。

Before criticizing others, remember that not everyone is as good as you, since he was a child.

32、她足够聪明，不会背负早已忘却的梦走过一年又一年。

She is smart enough to carry the dream that she has forgotten for years.

33、你不能永远活着，你不能永远活着。

You can't live forever, you can't live forever.

34、这就是女孩子在这种世界上最好的出路，当一个美丽的小傻瓜。

This is the best way for girls to be a beautiful little fool in this world.

35、从一个窗口看生活终究更容易心想事成。

Life is easier to think about from a window.

36、爱情永不褪色，纵使狂风暴雨，也绝不动摇。

Love never fade, even if the storm, never waver.

37、世间只有追求者和被追求者，忙碌的人与疲倦的人。

There are only pursuers and pursuers, busy people and tired people in the world.

38、人生还是单从一扇窗子看出去会比较成功。

Life is still a window to see out will be more successful.

39、我认为诚实是最重要的品性，至少我自己就是一个诚实的人。

I think honesty is the most important character, at least I am an honest person.

40、人类虽然没有翅膀，却能发现更多有意思的现象。

Although human beings have no wings, they can find more interesting phenomena.

41、我曾听人说，黛西说话很小声，是为了让人靠近她。

I heard that Daisy spoke very quietly to get close to her.

42、在矫揉造作的背后最终大多都隐藏着什么，即便在开始是没有。

Behind the affectation, most of them hide something, even if they are not at first.

43、只从一扇窗户去观察，人生要成功得多。

To observe only one window, life is much more successful.

44、我希望跟你一起做这世上所有的事，一生如此。

I hope to do all the things in the world with you, and I will do it all my life.

45、他们都是烂人，那些混蛋加起来也不如你高贵。

They are all bad people. Those bastards are not as noble as you.

46、所以我们不停地往前划，逆流而上，回到无穷无尽的过去。

So we kept going, up against the current, and went back to the endless past.

47、当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。

When you are in a human dilemma, don't complain, you can only learn from it in silence.

48、这世上并不是所有人，都有你拥有的那些优势。

Not everyone in the world has the advantages you have.

49、我总是期盼着一年中白昼最长的一天，最终也还是错过了。

I always look forward to the longest day of the year, and I miss it.

50、他出来寻找我们头顶上，属于他的那片星空。

He came out to look for the starry sky that belonged to us above us.

51、在他看来，这座城市弥漫着伤感之美，尽管她已经远走高飞。

In his view, the city was filled with sad beauty, although she had gone far away.

52、人从出生的时候起，具备的道德观念就是参差不齐的。

Since the birth of people, the moral concepts they have are uneven.

53、我既在其中，又在其外，对人生的变幻无穷感到既陶醉又厌恶。

I am both in and out of it, and I am both intoxicated and disgusted by the endless changes in life.

54、世界上只有追求者和被追求者，疲倦的人和忙碌的人。

There are only pursuers and pursuits, tired people and busy people in the world.

55、世上没有什么混乱，能比得上一个头脑简单的人思想上的混乱。

There is no confusion in the world, which can be compared with the confusion of a simple mind.

56、每个人的基本道德生而不同，不可等量齐观。

Everyone's basic morality is different, and can not be equal.

57、仅从一个窗口去观察，人生毕竟要显得成功得多。

Only from a window to observe, life after all to appear to be much more successful.

58、所有光鲜亮丽及昂贵奢华的事物终将凋谢。

All the bright and expensive luxury will die.

59、大概每个人都觉得自己至少有一种最重要的美德。

Probably everyone feels that they have at least one of the most important virtues.

60、他们都是烂人，那帮混蛋全部加起来也没有你高贵。

They are all bad people. All the bastards add up to be noble.

61、于是我们穿越冷却了的黄昏，继续驶向死亡。

So we went through the cold dusk and continued to drive to death.

62、就这样，我们穿过渐渐凉爽下来的暮色，驶向死亡。

So we drove through the cool twilight and headed for death.

63、阳光照耀大地，绿叶涌出树枝，犹如电影镜头中万物飞快生长。

The sun shines on the earth, and the green leaves are bursting out of branches, just like everything grows rapidly in the movie lens.

64、只从一个窗口审视人生，功成名就的机会更大。

Looking at life from a window alone, the chance of success is greater.

65、于是我们奋力逆水行舟，又注定要不停地退回到过去。

So we went against the water and were doomed to go back to the past.

66、窗外，天空在夕照中显得格外柔和，像蔚蓝的地中海一样。

Outside the window, the sky was especially soft in the setting sun, like the blue Mediterranean.

67、每个人心中都有一盏绿灯，既触摸不到，也熄灭不了。

Everyone has a green light in his heart, which can neither touch nor extinguish.

68、社会充满不公平现象。你先不要想去改造它，只能先适应它。

Society is full of unfair phenomena. You don't want to change it first, you can only adapt to it.

69、生活就是占据美好的东西。

Life is the thing that takes care of the good.

70、我们奋力前行，却如同逆水行舟，不断回到过去。

We are striving to go forward, but we go back to the past like sailing against the water.